How to Last Longer During Oral Sex
It would be very embarrassing for the man if, while his woman is just giving him an oral sex, he then reaches orgasm and ejaculates. The act is still a foreplay, and yet the man has already reached his sexual climax. The woman would become frustrated, because she is only about to get aroused, and the whole sexual activity is done in a few seconds or minutes. Deep inside her, she’s very disappointed of her man’s dismal sexual performance.
The scene above is no isolated case. Premature ejaculation, or the ejaculation before the man’s partner even reaches her orgasm, affects almost half of the male population. But even though it is a very common problem, it is neither related to a physical or sexual disorder, but rather just a matter of sexual performance. Below are some tips on how to last longer during oral sex and even go beyond it.
read moreOral Sex Technique – What is a Safe Technique For Shy Men
Oral sex technique is something many men do not give a second thought to. It comes naturally and most men instinctively know what to do. Well, at least many men do. Some do it better than others but to most, it is instinctive. But what if you are a shy guy? What if you really do not know what to do? What would be a safe technique for you to use in order not to risk ruining your lovemaking session with your woman? This article recommends a safe oral sex technique that you can use when you are out of ideas on what to do next.
1. Understand that any effective oral sex technique must start by first arousing your lover’s mind. Generally, pretty much any part of your lover’s skin can give her pleasure once you have got her mind sufficiently aroused. This is where foreplay comes in. Foreplay can sometimes take the form of very sexual verbal teasing and flirting. This can sometimes turn the mind on and when this happens, the body follows suit. You can turn your lover on this way. Other forms of foreplay also will help you e.g. kissing, snuggling, caressing her skin, running your fingers through her hair, hugging her tight as well as more aggressive forms such as role play, bondage, spanking and others. Each woman likes her foreplay different so find out from her what she likes.
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